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Notes from the Aisle

Ceremony ideas, vow-writing tips, Ontario how-tos and a few stories from 18 years at the front of the room. Served with heart, and the occasional happy tear.

Vow writing

How to write vows you’ll actually enjoy reading out loud

Start with a story, not a promise. My simple, three-part recipe for vows that sound like you, plus the one line I always cut.

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Rituals

Six unity rituals that aren’t a sand ceremony (and one that is)

Handfasting, a wine blend, a love-letter box and more: meaningful moments that suit every style of couple.

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Ontario how-to

Your Ontario marriage licence, step by step

Where to apply, what to bring, how long it lasts and what happens after the “I do”, in plain language.

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Stories

What I’ve learned from 1,800 first kisses

Eighteen years at the front of the room teaches you a thing or two about love, nerves and the power of a good tissue.

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Ceremony ideas

Bilingual ceremonies: weaving English and French together

How to honour both languages and both families without making your ceremony twice as long.

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Life celebrations

Planning a celebration of life that truly sounds like them

Gentle, practical guidance for gathering the stories, music and moments that honour someone you love.

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